Your Personal Statement

 

This is your opportunity to shine.  We encourage everyone to write the best depiction of themselves and what they are looking for.  Please give this some serious consideration.  Here is some “Food for Thought”:

 

What are your Hashkafos?

Who was your greatest Role Model and how did s/he impact your Hashkofos?

How did your childhood, environment and/or life experiences affect your personal beliefs and values?

What are your most fundamental personal values and beliefs?

What do you feel most passionate about that inspires you?

What are your gifts and talents? 

What do you like to do in your spare time?

What are your favorite hobbies?  

Are you an active sports person or are you a spectator, which sport? 

Are you artistic and creative?

What type of reading material do you prefer?

What type of music do you like? 

Do you Volunteer?

What is your personal motto?

How do you connect with Hashem?

Are Tefillah and Torah important to you?

Are you a high achiever?

Are you looking for a high academic or professional?

Are you looking for a career driven personality?

Are you family oriented?

How do you envision your future family?

What are you looking for in a spouse?

What matters most to you? Personality, looks, intelligence, hashkafa, height, age, financial standing, background?
What do you do or plan to do for Parnassah and why?

 

For those who are divorced, widowed or have another challenge whether physical or personal, you can “choose” to write something about how working through or overcoming that challenge transformed you into a stronger or more empowered or independent individual.

 

Do you have the writing skill to organize your “Personal Description” and “What you are Looking For” yourself or do you need help to pull your words together?  Don’t despair, ask someone you trust for assistance or you can contact our office at support@partnersinshidduchim.com to be put in touch with one of our writers to help you.  Remember it is just a small investment in your future.  We have lots of resources for you so please reach out to us as needed.

Your Personal Statement will add dimension, interest, and specificity to your Shidduch Profile and will therefore help everyone optimize the search for your match.