Be A PAL
At Partners in Shidduchim (PINS), we encourage you to choose a PAL (Personal Advocate Liason) such as a family member, friend, or shadchan to best represent you and who will help promote an encouraging environment to benefit both you and potential matches. Your PAL communicates with your matches on your behalf. When you fill out your PAL section your PAL will be your go to person for your matches.
This automatically puts someone in the middle to check possible matches which will be sent to them, and then forward anything that is appropriate to you. As soon as you get published it is your responsibility to forward your Profile to your PAL so they know that they are
representing you and that they might receive suggestions for you.